What More Evidence Do You Need Than a Woman’s Fear? The Murders of Stephanie Moseley, Wendy Black, and Tara Labang

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Imagine this.
You're lying in bed next to your

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husband.
It's Monday morning, December

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8th, 2014.
Los Angeles, the Palazzo East

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Apartments, luxury living with
floor to ceiling windows

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overlooking the city.
You've been married three years.

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You're a professional dancer and
actress on VH1's Hit the Floor.

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You've worked with Chris Brown.
Britney Spears performed on

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stages most people only dream
about.

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At 30 years old, you're finally
getting the recognition you

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deserve.
But your husband?

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He's a rapper who never quite
made it.

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He's in Floyd Mayweather's
entourage, living off proximity

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to fame instead of earning his
own.

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And lately he's been paranoid,
obsessed, convinced you're

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cheating on him with R&B singer
Trey Songz.

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You've told him 1000 times it's
not true.

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You separated 2 years ago over
these same accusations, then

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reconciled because you loved
him.

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You thought love would be
enough.

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It's not.
You hear him on the phone in the

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other room.
His voice is different today,

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flat, cold.
He walks into the bedroom

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holding his phone.
He's Facetiming with Floyd

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Mayweather.
Floyd's trying to talk him down.

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You hear Floyd's voice through
the speaker, urgent, pleading.

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Your husband raises his other
hand.

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He's holding a gun.
You open your mouth to scream.

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The first shot tears through
you, then another and another.

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Floyd Mayweather watches through
a phone screen, helpless, 1000

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miles away.
Your name was Stephanie Moseley,

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and the man who killed you
thought jealousy justified

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murder.
Picture this.

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You're a nurse anesthetist in
Columbia, MD.

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It's Saturday, December 11th,
2021, seven years after

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Stephanie.
You're in your apartment, maybe

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doing laundry or reading a book
or making lunch.

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Normal Saturday afternoon
things.

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You have a daughter you're
fighting to protect.

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Your ex-husband, also a nurse
anesthetist, has been

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terrorizing you for months.
You filed for a protective

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order.
You told the court he threatened

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to kill you with a gun.
You showed them text messages,

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documented his escalating rage,
explained how afraid you were.

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The judge denied your petition.
Insufficient evidence.

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They said you needed more proof.
What more evidence do you need

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than a woman's fear?
Six months pass.

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You try to feel safe in your own
home, but you can't.

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And today your worst fear comes
true.

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Your ex-husband forces his way
into your apartment.

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He's already killed his other
ex-girlfriend, Tara.

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Earlier today, he confessed to
that murder on Facebook Live

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streaming his breakdown to the
world.

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Now he's in your home.
You fight, You beg, you try to

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reason with him.
Nothing works.

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He shoots you multiple times.
Then he turns the gun on

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himself.
Your name was Wendy Black.

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The court told you your fear
wasn't enough.

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Six months later, you were dead.
One more story.

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You're a healer, Filipino,
Hawaiian heritage, a woman who

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dedicated her life to saving
others.

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It's Saturday morning, December
11th, 2021, same day as Wendy.

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You're in Baltimore, less than
30 miles away from where Wendy

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will die later today.
You used to date a man named

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Raji.
Nurse anesthetist.

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Intelligent, professional.
But the relationship ended and

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you moved on.
He didn't.

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He's been texting you, calling
you, showing up unannounced.

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This morning, he shows up again.
Maybe you let him in because you

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think you can talk to him.
Maybe you're trying to be kind.

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Maybe you don't realize how
dangerous he's become.

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He kills you.
Then he gets in his car and

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drives to Facebook.
Not the company, the platform.

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He goes live, confesses to your
murder, tells the world he's not

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done.
He drives to Columbia, to his

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ex-wife Wendy's apartment.
After he kills her, after he

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kills himself, your name becomes
a footnote, the first victim,

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the catalyst.
But you weren't a footnote.

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Your name was Tara Labang, and
you deserved so much more than

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being the first body in a spree
killers rampage.

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When I first came across these
cases, Stephanie Story was

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already well known because of
the Floyd Mayweather connection.

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Celebrity tragedy, tabloid
headlines.

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The kind of case that gets
attention because famous people

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were adjacent to it.
But Wendy and Tara?

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I found them buried in local
news archives, barely a blip in

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the national conversation.
Three women, two killers, one

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devastating pattern.
Men who believe their rage

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mattered more than women's
lives.

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And I couldn't stop asking how
many more women have to die

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before we stop treating intimate
partner violence like a private

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family matter and start treating
it like the public health crisis

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it is.
I'm Samantha Paul.

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This is no tears for black
girls.

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The cases they ignored.
If you're new here, we don't

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just tell true crime stories.
We expose the systems that

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failed these women.
We connect the dots and we

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demand accountability.
Let's talk about patterns.

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When Nicole Brown Simpson was
murdered by OJ Simpson in 1994,

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she had called the police. 9 * 9
documented cries for help.

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The system failed her.
When Rihanna was beaten by Chris

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Brown in 2009, photos of her
battered face went viral, but he

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served no jail time.
When Gabby Petito went missing

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in 2021, the story dominated
every news cycle for weeks.

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Wall to wall coverage, national
search efforts.

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And yes, her case mattered.
But compare that to the hundreds

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of missing and murdered
Indigenous women, Black women,

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Latina women whose cases never
made it past local news.

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The media called Gabby's
disappearance A tragedy.

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They called Wendy and Tara's
murders a domestic incident.

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You see the difference?
One case gets humanized, the

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others get categorized.
Here's what the data shows.

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One in four women in the United
States will experience severe

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intimate partner violence in
their lifetime.

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For Black women, that number is
35% higher.

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Black women are nearly three
times more likely to be murdered

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by an intimate partner than
white women.

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Not because Black men are
inherently more violent, but

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because when Black women report
abuse, they're less likely to be

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believed, less likely to receive
protective orders, less likely

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to get the resources they need
to escape.

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The system is designed to fail
them, and then we act surprised

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when they end up dead.
So let's talk about Stephanie

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Moseley, Wendy Black, and Tara
Lebang, 3 women who should still

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be alive.
Let's talk about Earl Hayes and

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Raji Black, two men who chose
violence.

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And let's talk about the systems
that enabled both tragedies,

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Because these deaths weren't
inevitable.

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They were predictable,
preventable, and entirely the

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fault of a society that refuses
to take women's fear seriously.

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Stephanie Moseley was born in
Vancouver, Canada.

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She moved to Los Angeles to
chase a dream, and she caught

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it.
Professional dancer, actress.

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She worked with some of the
biggest names in entertainment.

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Chris Brown, Britney Spears.
You've probably seen her work,

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even if you didn't know her
name.

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She was cast on VH1's Hit the
Floor as one of the Devil Girls.

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Finally, her face was being
seen, not just her choreography.

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She was beautiful, talented,
hard working, and she was

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married to Earl Hayes, a rapper
who never quite broke through.

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He was part of Floyd
Mayweather's entourage, which

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meant he had access to wealth
and fame without earning it

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himself.
That kind of proximity breeds

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resentment.
Earl was jealous of Stephanie's

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success, obsessed with the idea
that she was cheating on him,

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specifically with Trey Songz.
There's no evidence the affair

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ever happened, but in Earl's
mind, it didn't matter.

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Perception was reality, and his
perception was poisoned by

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jealousy, insecurity, and rage.
Wendy Black was a nurse

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anesthetist.
If you don't know what that

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means, let me tell you.
It's one of the most demanding

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jobs in healthcare.
CRN as administer anesthesia,

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monitor patients during surgery,
make life or death decisions in

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seconds.
Wendy was smart, capable,

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dedicated.
She had a daughter, she was

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building a life.
And then she met Raji Black,

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also a nurse anesthetist.
On paper, they seemed like a

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good match.
Same profession, same education

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level, same ambition.
They got married, had a child

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together, but the marriage fell
apart.

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Custody battles, restraining
order attempts.

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Raji couldn't accept that Wendy
had moved on.

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In his mind, if he couldn't have
her, no one could.

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Tara Labang was a healer in
every sense of the word.

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Friends described her as someone
who lit up every room she

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entered.
She had that rare combination of

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intelligence and warmth, the
kind of person who made everyone

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around her feel seen.
She worked in healthcare like

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Wendy and Raji.
She dated Raji after his

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marriage to Wendy ended, but she
broke up with him, moved on with

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her life, and Raji couldn't
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Another woman who rejected him.
Another woman who had the

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audacity to choose herself over
him.

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Earl Hayes and Raji Black.
Two men, different cities,

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different circumstances, but the
same entitlement, the same

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belief that women existed to
validate them.

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And when those women refused,
violence was justified.

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Earl convinced himself he was
the victim of Stephanie's

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alleged infidelity.
Raji convinced himself he was

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the victim of Wendy's custody
fight and Tara's rejection.

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Both men told themselves a story
where they were the wronged

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party.
Both men use that story to

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justify murder.
Let's be clear.

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Jealousy is not love, control is
not protection, and murder is

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not passion.
These are the lies we tell

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ourselves to make male violence
seem understandable.

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Earl didn't kill Stephanie
because he loved her too much,

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he killed her because he didn't
see her as a person.

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She was an object he owned and
when he thought someone else had

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touched his property, he
destroyed it.

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Raji didn't kill Tara and Wendy
because he couldn't live without

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them, he killed them because
they dared to live without him.

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December 8th, 2014.
Stephanie and Earl are in their

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apartment at the Palazzo East in
Los Angeles.

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Luxury building security.
The kind of place where you're

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supposed to feel safe.
Earl is on FaceTime with Floyd

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Mayweather.
Floyd's in another city, maybe

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Vegas, just talking to his
friend.

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And then Earl's mood shifts.
He starts talking about

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Stephanie, about Trey Songz,
about betrayal.

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Floyd realizes something's
wrong.

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He tries to talk Earl down.
Stay calm.

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Don't do anything stupid.
Think about what you're doing.

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But Earl's already decided.
He walks into the bedroom where

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Stephanie is.
Floyd can see her on the screen.

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Earl raises a gun, Floyd
screaming now, begging him to

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stop.
But Earl fires once, twice,

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multiple shots.
Stephanie Mosley, 30 years old,

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dies in her own bed while a
boxing champion watches through

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a phone screen, helpless.
Floyd calls 911, but it's too

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late for Stephanie.
LAPD and SWAT respond.

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By the time they breach the
apartment, Earl has turned the

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gun on himself.
Murder suicide, The phrase the

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media uses when men kill women
and then take the cowards way

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out.
The news reports focus on Floyd

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Mayweather.
What did he see?

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What did he hear?
How traumatized is he?

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And yes, Floyd was traumatized.
Witnessing murder scars you.

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But here's what bothers me.
Floyd was on the phone with Earl

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for several minutes before the
shooting.

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He heard the threats, he saw the
gun.

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And he didn't call 911 until
after Stephanie was already

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dead.
Could he have saved her if he'd

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called sooner?
We'll never know.

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Floyd's not legally responsible
for Stephanie's death.

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Earl is.
But there's a question that

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haunts me.
When you witness someone

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threatening violence, do you
have a moral obligation to

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intervene?
I think you do.

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December 11th, 2021, Seven years
after Stephanie Raji Black wakes

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up that Saturday morning with a
plan.

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He drives to Baltimore, to
Tara's Place.

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The woman he used to date, the
woman who broke up with him.

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What happens in those moments
before he kills her?

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We don't know.
Maybe she tried to reason with

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him.
Maybe she fought.

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Maybe she begged.
All we know is that Tara Labang

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dies that morning.
And then Raji does something

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chilling.
He gets in his car, opens

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Facebook on his phone, goes
live, starts confessing, tells

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his followers he just killed
Tara, says she drove him to it.

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Says he's not done, Says Wendy's
next.

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People are watching this in real
time, commenting.

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Some beg him to stop.
Some don't believe it's real.

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Some think it's a sick joke.
It's not.

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Raji drives from Baltimore to
Columbia, MD, less than 30

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miles.
Wendy's apartment.

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She filed for a protective order
months ago, told the court Raji

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threatened to kill her with a
gun.

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The judge denied it.
So Wendy's home alone.

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When Raji forces his way inside,
she fights.

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Neighbors later report hearing
screaming, but no one calls the

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police in time.
Raji shoots Wendy multiple

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times.
Then he turns the gun on

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himself.
By the time police arrive, three

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people are dead.
Tara, Wendy, Raji and the

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Internet has footage of a man
confessing to murder in real

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time.
Here's what makes me sick.

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Wendy Black told the system she
was in danger.

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She went to court, filed
paperwork, documented threats,

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said the words.
He threatened to kill me with a

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gun and the judge said not
enough evidence, denied.

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What more evidence do you need
than a woman's fear?

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We expect women to predict their
own murders, to have documented

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proof that the man threatening
them will follow through.

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We expect them to wait until
after the first act of violence

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to get protection, and by then
it's often too late.

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Wendy did everything right.
She left the marriage.

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She filed for protection.
She told the truth and the

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system said come back when he
actually tries to kill you.

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Six months later he did, and she
didn't get to come back.

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The investigations were
straightforward because both

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killers were dead.
In Stephanie's case, LAPD had

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Floyd Mayweather's witness
testimony.

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They had the 911 call.
They had the bodies.

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Murder, suicide case closed.
No trial, no accountability.

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Just two families burying their
dead in Wendy and Tara's case.

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Baltimore PD and Howard County
PD had even more evidence.

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Facebook Live confession,
digital trail witnesses who saw

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Raji driving between crime
scenes.

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Murder suicide, case closed.
But here's what doesn't close

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the questions.
Why didn't Wendy's protective

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order get granted?
Why didn't anyone intervene when

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Raji was live streaming his
confession?

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Why do we have a system that
waits for women to die before we

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take their fear seriously?
After Stephanie's death, people

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asked why she stayed with Earl
after their first separation.

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After the jealousy and
accusations, why did she go

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back?
After Wendy's death, people

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asked why she didn't just leave
sooner.

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Why did she marry Raji in the
1st place?

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These questions miss the point.
The question isn't why did she

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stay, the question is why did he
kill her?

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We put the burden of survival on
women.

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We tell them to leave abusive
relationships, but we don't talk

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about the fact that leaving is
the most dangerous time.

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Women are 70 times more likely
to be killed by their abuser in

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the weeks after they leave than
at any other point in the

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relationship.
Stephanie left Earl once they

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reconciled, she thought it would
get better.

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Wendy left Raja, filed for
divorce, filed for a protective

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order.
She did everything the system

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told her to do and she still
died.

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Los Angeles, Baltimore,
Columbia, MD different cities,

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same story.
Luxury apartments and suburban

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homes.
It doesn't matter where you

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live.
Domestic violence doesn't care

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about your zip code. the Palazzo
East where Stephanie died had

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security guards and gated entry.
Didn't matter.

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Wendy's apartment in Columbia
was in a safe neighborhood,

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Didn't matter.
Tara's home in Baltimore had

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neighbors close enough to hear,
Didn't matter because the danger

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wasn't outside.
It was intimate, known, trusted

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the men who killed them, had
keys or knocked on doors that

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opened.
They didn't need to break in.

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They were already inside.
Let's talk about the systems

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that failed these women
protective orders.

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In theory, they're supposed to
keep abusers away.

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In practice, they're pieces of
paper that rely on abusers

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following rules.
And abusers don't follow rules.

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But even a flawed protective
order is better than nothing.

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It gives police the authority to
arrest on site.

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It creates a legal record.
It shows the court that a woman

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is afraid.
So when Wendy Black filed for a

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protective order and told the
court Raji threatened to kill

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her with a gun and the judge
denied it, that wasn't just

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bureaucratic failure.
That was a death sentence.

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What more evidence do you need?
A body.

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Because that's what you got six
months later, Wendy Black's

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body.
I want you to think about that,

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judge, the one who denied
Wendy's petition.

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I want you to imagine them
reading the news, seeing Wendy's

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name, realizing they could have
helped her.

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Do they feel responsible?
Do they regret it?

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Or do they tell themselves it's
not their fault, that they were

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just following procedure?
Because here's the thing about

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systems.
They let individuals hide behind

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protocols.
The judge who denied Wendy's

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order can say I was just
applying the standard.

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The police who didn't take
Stephanie's previous calls

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seriously can say we didn't have
enough evidence.

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The Facebook employees who saw
Raji's confession in real time

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but didn't immediately alert
police can say we're not law

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enforcement.
Everyone has an excuse, and

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women keep dying.
Black women face intimate

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partner violence at rates 35%
higher than white women.

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They're 2.7 times more likely to
be murdered by a partner.

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Why?
It's not because Black men are

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inherently more violent.
It's because when Black women

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report abuse, they're less
likely to be believed.

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When they seek protective
orders, they're more likely to

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be denied.
When they call the police,

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they're more likely to be
dismissed.

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The system is built on biases
that say Black women are strong,

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resilient, unbreakable.
Which sounds like a compliment

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until you realize it means
people don't think we need help,

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don't think we can be victims,
don't think our fear is

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legitimate.
The strong black woman trope

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kills us because when we say
we're in danger, people assume

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we can handle it, and when we
can't, they blame us for not

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being strong enough.
Here's where these cases stand

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as of January 2026.
In the years after Stephanie's

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death, California expanded its
red flag law, what the state

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calls a gun violence restraining
order.

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If someone's threatening
violence, family members or

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police can petition to
temporarily remove their

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firearms.
Would it have saved Stephanie?

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Maybe, if someone had reported
Earl's escalating threats?

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If Floyd had called police
earlier?

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If a red flag petition had been
filed.

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But it requires people to act.
Wendy Black's murder poured

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gasoline on the already burning
debate in Maryland about how

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hard it is to get a protective
order, making the standards less

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stringent.
Believing women when they say

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they're afraid.
But the reforms haven't passed.

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Committees, debates,
bureaucracy.

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Meanwhile, women keep filing for
protective orders and some still

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get denied.
Tara Lebang's death is barely

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mentioned in the discussions
about reform.

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She's the footnote, the first
victim, the warm up act to the

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main tragedy.
And that's the problem.

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We don't value all victims
equally.

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Stephanie got attention because
Floyd Mayweather was involved.

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Wendy gets attention because the
protective order denial is such

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clear system failure.
Tara gets overlooked.

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But Tara mattered.
Her life mattered.

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And if we forget her, we've
learned nothing.

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Stephanie Mosley is buried in
Vancouver, her hometown.

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Her family remembers her as a
light, a dancer who moved with

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grace on stage and in life.
Her social media pages are still

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up, frozen in time, photos of
her smiling, performing, living.

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People still comment, rest in
peace.

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You deserved better.
Gone too soon.

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Wendy Black is buried in
Maryland.

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Her daughter, the child she
fought to protect, had to grow

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up without a mother.
Wendy's colleagues in the

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medical field remember her as
brilliant, dedicated, the kind

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of nurse you wanted in the room
during a crisis.

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Tara Labang is buried with
honors befitting a healer.

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Her family and friends created a
Memorial Fund, raising money for

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funeral expenses and a
scholarship in her name.

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Community support.
Turning grief into action.

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That's how we honor the dead.
Not with thoughts and prayers.

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With change.
Here's what I need you to

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understand.
These deaths were preventable.

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Not in a vague, philosophical
sense.

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In a concrete, actionable sense.
If Earl Hayes had been reported

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for his threats and his guns
removed, Stephanie might be

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alive.
If Wendy Black's protective

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order had been granted, she
might be alive.

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If someone had called the police
the moment Raji started live

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streaming his confession, Tara
might be alive.

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Every single one of these
tragedies had an intervention

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point, a moment where someone
could have done something and no

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one did, or they did and the
system failed them anyway.

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That's the part that should
enrage you, not the

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inevitability, the
preventability.

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If you're listening to this and
you recognize yourself in these

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stories, if you're afraid of
your partner, if you've thought

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about leaving but you're scared
of what will happen, please hear

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me.
You deserve to be safe.

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You deserve to be believed.
You deserve help.

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Call the national domestic
violence hotline AT180799 safe.

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That's 1800 seven 99 safe.
They have advocates available

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24/7.
They can help you safety plan.

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They can connect you with local
resources.

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They can remind you that you're
not alone.

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And if you're someone who knows
a woman in danger, don't wait.

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Don't assume she'll ask for
help.

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Don't assume the system will
protect her.

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Intervene, call the police, help
her leave.

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Be the person who breaks the
pattern because Stephanie, Wendy

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and Tara needed someone to
intervene and no one did.

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Or they tried and it wasn't
enough.

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Don't let that be your story.
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Demand justice, not just for
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For every woman who deserves
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prayers, we owe them more than
grief.

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We owe them change.
Thank you for listening to No

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Tears for Black Girls.
Stay loved, stay blessed, and

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stay safe.
This is Samantha Paul.